Many parents complain that their child
lags in studies and that he isn’t scoring good marks in exams, that he
cannot concentrate on his studies and that he does not understand
certain subjects well. Many times, children lack the intellectual
capacity altogether or have a lesser Intelligence Quotient ( IQ). This
may not reveal much, but it would be of help if one can counsel students
and parents after understanding the child’s capacity and inclination
for a specific career. There is a formula to find the IQ of children.
IQ = Mental Age x 100
_________
Actual age
It enables us to find the IQ of any child.
Reasons for children lagging in studies:
The child lacks intellectual capacity. Genetics plays a major role in
this. Some children are hyperkinetic or over-active and hence lack
concentration. In cases of dyslexia, the key mental functions like
reading, writing and cognition do not work properly. Spelling mistakes,
jumbled alphabets, mathematical errors, inability to memorize poems are
some of the symptoms. Some children are unable to see or hear properly.
At such times, it is important to consult a doctor ad get the necessary
tests done. If children are epileptic or suffer from any such mental
disorder, then there is stunted growth. Malnutrition, ailments, fatigue,
depression, fear or mental ailments can also result in less
intellectual capacity.
When the medium of instruction in school
is beyond the comprehension of a child, then he will obviously face
difficulty in understanding the subject. English is the universal medium
of instruction today. However, if it is not the mother tongue, then
there could be some problems. When parents don’t understand English
well, they face difficulty in teaching the child. If the teaching in
school is not good or laced with the fear of punishment, then it hampers
the learning process of children. When teachers exhibit disinterest in
teaching or simply ridicule the children, they lag behind in studies.
When parents unreasonably compare their child with others, resort to
hitting or is subject to ridicule by others, then it turns a recluse. At
times, parents resort to unreasonable expectations from children,
subjecting them to class after class of hobbies, tuitions, maths, extra
class, etc. which results in a total chaos in the child’s life.
Treatment- Counselling is the best
method of treatment. When counselled after recognizing the capacity of
the child and of the parents, it really works wonders. Children
suffering from some ailments must be treated for the same with
medicines. In cases such as dyslexia, it is important to know the
strengths of the child and drive him on that path. One can teach such
children the basics of accounting combined with thorough training in
some art or craft. Every person has his own strengths, it is essential
to recognize it in time.
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