Wednesday 12 July 2017

Ability to take decisions

Life is difficult for someone who is unable to take decisions. Frequent dilemmas of to do or not to do results in not one task being completed. This impacts their productivity. Such people are restless because nothing seems to appeal to them. At times they exhibit polar behaviour. Just because they were jovial today doesn’t mean the same will happen tomorrow. Their moods too keep fluctuating between extremes. Such people are unreliable and cannot complete a task in a given time. They would assign any excuse for this delay. To follow a time schedule or not is the root dilemma for them. They keep checking something that has already been done; for ex: the gas connection, door locks, etc.
This restless nature causes difficulty in concentrating and the mind keeps wandering. Homoeopathy and flower therapy helps get the mind to concentrate. This is especially helpful for mediocre children who are unable to concentrate. Some people cannot even tell what ails them. They confuse between whether it is the body that ails or the mind. Their ailments mirror their nature. At times they suffer from constipation and at others, it is diarrhoea, feeling cold or sometimes very hot, feeling hungry  or sometimes not eating anything at all. Flower therapy is beneficial specifically to adolescent children who are restless. Some children habitually change clothes are dangle their legs. This is a symptom of lack of concentration.
An able boy aged 28, let’s call him Santosh, who lacked the ability to take decisions since childhood. His mother always sided him and he somehow managed to complete his education. However, he could not manage a single job or profession properly. As he settled in his job, he’d get another offer and leave the first job. Some friend suggested a business and there he was pursuing it. This went on for almost 6 to 7 years. He hadn’t settled in life yet and hence his income was meagre. He didn’t have the capacity to discern between the trustworthy and others. His father felt helpless at this situation.
When I spoke to Santosh, he expressed his inability to take any decisions. He would trust everything that any person said or told him. Whenever he took a decision, he would be in a dilemma if that was a wrong one. This made him detest taking any decisions at all. It took a toll on his job and income. Today we are faced with many such examples. Such people must recognize their problems in time and start flower therapy. This would at least brighten their future.

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