An Urdu sher goes something like ‘Khud hi ko kar buland itna, ki har taqdeer se pehle Khuda bande se pooche ke bata teri raza kya hai’
It is one of the most surreal feeling
in a person’s life. When a person feels confident to reach the stars,
nothing seems impossible. Examples galore where confidence has resulted
in a rags to riches tales. Those are the spirited ones who achieve
success without any support or a safety net to fall back on. However,
lack of confidence causes a person to shudder at the thought of even
simple tasks. One can find many such instances at home, in office, at
school or the workplace. Many patients avail of flower therapy to
increase confidence and proves beneficial.
Satish was shy even as a child and
never dared even speak. He disliked venturing out of home and even to
speak to strangers. Whenever there were guests at home and he’d be
called out to be introduced, he’d either escape from the back door or
hide in the bathroom. He had no friends in school or college, leave
alone having girl friends. He broke into sweat at the thought of
speaking to girls. All this was as a result of the environment in his
house. His mother had raised him in a very protective way. His father
tried to boost his confidence but his mother always backed him by saying
that he’s the only child and how could he manage on his own. This made
him a recluse and shy person. He somehow bagged a job in a private firm.
Here too, he earned the scorn of his bosses owing to his shy nature.
Not being a go-getter, he obviously barely earned. The real problem
arose when it was time to find a match. When the prospective girl handed
him a cup of tea, his hands would tremble. The girl herself rejected
him. It was then that he realized that he needs medical help to gain his
confidence. He benefited from flower therapy.
Confidence is required to take your own
decisions, to develop a personality and when it is lost due to some
reasons, flower therapy helps. Losing confidence to drive after an
accident, as a result of continuous demoralizing at the workplace or at
the hands of the in-laws, as a result of continuous taunts from
relatives or owing to fear has remedy in flower therapy and homoeopathy.
The two when combined, prove complementary to each other in treating a
person. At times, unknown stress can also result in lack of confidence.
Here was a person who worked as an assistant manager in a bank. When the
manager was scheduled to be out of station for some training, the work
charge can on him. He began suffering from diarrhoea that day itself. He
could not even attend work that day. This kind of emotional diarrhoea
happens out of stress. Flower therapy is a boon for such patients.
Patients with low levels of confidence often suffer from anaemia,
frequent bouts of cold, emotional diarrhoea ( Irritable bowel syndrome –
IBS), back trouble or even insomnia.
by-Dr Sonali Sarnobat
* Consult the concerned doctor for your health issues.
English Version Credit: Mrs. Swati Jog
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